De Vita Family

The best things are worth waiting for!



Adopting Olivia was definitely the best thing we ever did . . . hands down the best decision ever made. Funny, how it took such a long time and struggle to get to the point to decide to adopt.  If I would have know how much joy and love this perfect child of ours was to bring us I would not have hesitated so long as I did to go down the road of adoption.

Now that we have been back home a while and things have settled down (as much as they can with a 2 year-old running around), I find myself often sharing our story.  When Commonwealth first asked me if I was interested in becoming a Family Mentor, I was not sure what that even was.  What I did know is that we had a wonderful experience with Commonwealth; from beginning to end we felt supported and guided every step of the way, and the friendships we made in Bogota with other adoptive couples made all the difference.  I see how important it is to be in touch with other adoptive families before, during and after the process.

I am glad and proud to have become a Family Mentor for Commonwealth and share our experience with others. I remember being at the beginning of the adoption journey with many more questions than answers and wondering whom to ask. . . so, go ahead write to me if you have questions.  I’ll be happy to tell you about what we went through.  If I can help just one couple decide to become a family through adoption, I will be thrilled. I believe it is a powerful opportunity I have been given and  will do whatever I can to let others know that adopting is just one more way to become a family.

All my best,

Zita
We didn't give you the gift of life,
but in our hearts we know.
The love we feel is as deep and real
as if it had been so.
For us to have each other
is like a dream come true.
No, we didn't give you the gift of life,
life gave us the gift of you.